Federal law says military recruiters are to have the same access to kids as college recruiters – not greater access. Military recruiters may eat in the cafeteria while college recruiters meet with select kids in the guidance office. Military recruiters also perform dozens of volunteer tasks in the schools.
Demand that military recruiters never be allowed to be alone with kids.
Get counter-recruitment information from NNOMY (National Network Opposing the Militarization of Youth) and Project YANO (Project on Youth and Non-military Opportunities) into your schools.
Make sure recruiters are not regularly occupying guidance offices. Federal courts have ruled you have the right to counter the message of recruiters in the schools.